Introverts are shrouded in misconceptions so let's just start by dispelling a few. First off, introverts genuinely enjoy being alone. While they are sometimes perceived as antisocial or boujee, nothing could be further from the truth. To the contrary, they really like people. In fact, they value people so much that they crave genuine connection, real conversation, and sincere relationships. Anything less can feel phony and exhausting. Also, not all introverts are shy. They are fully capable of flourishing in a crowd. Introversion exists on a spectrum, and it is just one of several personality traits that an individual may have.
Wherever you fall on the introverted scale, here are 10 guilty pleasures we probably share:
1. When Plans Get Cancelled
Live footage of us when we get that, "Sorry, it's been cancelled," text.
2. Evading Small Talk
"I'm fine… and you?" "Yes, the weather is very nice." "Um, hmm…Work is going great." What is happening here? Why must we do this?
3. Dining Alone
I just want my food and alone time. That's it.
4. Being Fluent In Yeezanese…sometimes
The creative introvert.
5. Ghosting
You don't fight, you don't argue. When introverts peep shade, they're most likely to take a mental note and just quietly fall back.
6. Going Solo
No entourage necessary. Introverts are perfectly content exploring on their own.
7. People Watching
Introverts enjoy social settings most when they're not compelled to engage.
8. Screening Calls
Can we just text though?
9. Having Extroverted Friends
Introverts don't need to be the center of attention which makes them great companions for those super social friends.
10. Taking Naps
This is us after a day of non-stop social interaction.
Honestly, Where are the lies?
