Great TV Moments in #BlackGirlBadassery Vol. 8: Olivia Pope
March 04, 2016 at 3:19 am
Her make-believe fixer also arrived at a similar awakening in an episode of Scandal
NEXT UP: OLIVIA POPEA custodian of public image in the lives of Washington's elite. The clean up woman of sorts. Olivia Pope's crème de la crème occupation, loosely based on Judy Smith's real-life crisis management, is what we've become addicted to over the last five seasons. Outside of her mind blowing sex life, to-die-for wardrobe and a squad ready to catch a case at a moment's notice, Olivia is pretty normal. She is just like any other woman overwhelmed by her day-to-day job duties, in addition to the unsettling pressures constantly applied by society. The days where you say "I can't even", yeah she has those too
Liv always comes through with the meltdowns.Type A personalities aren't known to accept defeat.When the chips are down, she always manages to pull out a last minute victory
Where there's a will, Liv finds a way.Although, a second of glory usually translates to some intertwined cliffhanger Shonda Rhimes keeps handy to send us into emotional distress
Olivia's tumultuous father-daughter relationship set the dysfunctional tone for her shattered love life, yet and still she works. Liv keeps busy as a worker bee. You know the person in your life who keeps busying doing everything else except for tending to her private matters? She is Olivia
Tracking down career assassins and federal wolves in sheep's clothing requires 100% attention. Olivia lives life at the disposal of others
Fierce on the surface.
Only a split second away from losing it.She keeps up appearances, rarely admitting to shortcomings. Winning is her only solution. After years of insanity and producing unhealthy results, Olivia Pope uttered three words ultimately catapulting her character into a new arena
Season 4, Episode 9: "Where the Sun Don't Shine"
Olivia: I want Vermont with Fitz. Jake: Oh, okay. Olivia: I also want the sun with you. Jake: So... Olivia: I'm not choosing. I'm not choosing Jake. I'm not choosing Fitz. I choose me. I'm choosing Olivia. And right now, Olivia is dancing. I'm dancing, Jake. I'm free. Now, you can dance with me or you can get off my dance floor. I'm fine dancing alone. Olivia is ultimately snatched by unknown kidnappers in the moments to follow, because Shonda Rhimes' writing team plays too much, but you get the gist
Women are often conditioned to believe their needs are to be shelved, taking a backseat to everyone else's problems. In many areas in life, women have a full-time job as fixers. Often, we place our feelings at number two or three, and never where it belongs; in first place. Family, children, relationships and even spirituality, tend to trump our emotions. While we are a species designed for nurturing, we cannot fix our environment if our own house is not in order. In this episode, Olivia promoted herself to number one. For once, the job and the men took a backseat to her happiness. While she caved a few times in the episodes to follow, allowing her sex drive to steer her into unsafe emotional territory, verbalizing self-love is one of Olivia's most notable deeds
If you're everything to everybody but yourself, then there will be nothing left of you to go around. When is the last time you chose you?
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