Let’s pause to thank mother Janet Jackson and John Singleton for this line.
This classic moment from the 1993 classic, Poetic Justice serves as more than just a fictional purpose…it’s reality. Women are generally considered “bossy” when we stand up for our beliefs and take charge in leadership settings. Yet, when a black woman is assertive or shows a hint of abrasiveness, we are immediately marginalized as “loud” or a “bitch”, simply put. We’ve broken our backs to claim what is rightfully ours, only to be discredited and nonetheless taught not to get too unruly. For a group of women known for shattering records, holding down a movement, and quick to monetize our intellect, we are also silenced for all of the above.
The world wants our bodies and unique style, not the voice. That ends today.
The #LoudBlackGirls hashtag picked up steam Friday.
Me when I first saw #LoudBlackGirls trending on Twitter. All I could think was “RIP to Nate Dogg, time to regulate”. pic.twitter.com/vV9eSHGdAZ
— GirlTyler (@sheistyler) July 15, 2016
This hashtag had me nervous #LoudBlackGirls .. Had some pie ready to serve pic.twitter.com/AfMNCOakwz
— GLH2 (@11TwelvePassion) July 15, 2016
Seeing the #loudblackgirls hashtag and then realizing its about black women finding their voice pic.twitter.com/ylFXRuqlID
— Märi (@AmberBearMSP) July 15, 2016
But in the most positive way.
Was getting ready to pop off to defend my sistas but this looks like a negative turned positive lol #LoudBlackGirls pic.twitter.com/ffexlQkebh
— #BlackLivesMatter (@IsaiahWJ_) July 15, 2016
Following Thursday night’s seemingly disappointing ABC town hall with President Obama, Eric Garner’s daughter, Erica made her position clear that she would not be silenced.
And the #LoudBlackGirls conversation began with Feminista Jones leading the charge.
Erica Garner said she had to be belligerent to be heard.
I have a thread somewhere about Black girls/women and the “loud” stereotype
— Feminista Jones (@FeministaJones) July 15, 2016
When I read that from her, it resonated for me.
When I hear #LoudBlackGirls, I think of how many of us are routinely silenced by violence
— Feminista Jones (@FeministaJones) July 15, 2016
I think of how Maya Angelou was mute after rape. I think of how she became a #LoudBlackGirl through her writing and activism.
— Feminista Jones (@FeministaJones) July 15, 2016
I think about how Black girls are suspended and expelled from schools more than anyone else, silenced in their education #LoudBlackGirls
— Feminista Jones (@FeministaJones) July 15, 2016
I think about how we silence ourselves to avoid the “Angry Black Woman” stereotype when we really just need to be heard #LoudBlackGirls
— Feminista Jones (@FeministaJones) July 15, 2016
Black women from all over joined the dialogue to express why they won’t back down on issues important to them and the challenges most of us face when we do speak up.
We are passionate just like the next woman, but told “not to get out of line”.
I notice it won’t be my tone or my volume but what I’m saying that will cause ppl to immediately say “well, don’t get loud”#loudBlackgirls
— Panic! At The Bando (@FireinFreetown) July 15, 2016
No matter how many times I turn the other cheek and let it slide the moment I clap back I’m labeled one of those #loudblackgirls
— Dylan St. Jaymes (@Dylan_StJaymes) July 15, 2016
We amplify our joy, disdain, happiness and sorrow because we are in a world that will tell you they aren’t worth hearing. #LoudBlackGirls
— NDA, Ph.D (@TaliAuzenne) July 15, 2016
They talk about #LoudBlackGirls until they need us. In the classroom, at the protest, at the polls…
— Nyasha Junior (@NyashaJunior) July 15, 2016
Black Women are always too loud until you want us to show up at a protest to yell for you. #LoudBlackGirls
— Jameelah Jones, M.A (@sunnydaejones) July 15, 2016
Because the “Angry Black Woman” narrative needs to die quick, fast and in a hurry.
My volume doesn’t matter. If they don’t like what they’re hearing, I’m just one of those #LoudBlackGirls
— BLM (@AshleyCanino) July 15, 2016
Black women are taking the “angry black woman” narrative and turning it into something positive. #loudblackgirls pic.twitter.com/jYotdSGlAL
— Akilah (@craziforlife) July 15, 2016
You’ll be waiting all of your life if you expect an apology for our boldness.
You are going to hear us and just deal #LoudBlackGirls pic.twitter.com/eQ7QV10eFI
— Misty Knight’s Afro (@Steph_I_Will) July 15, 2016
Come through sisters!
Facts only.
And THAT, my friends, is the root of the issue.
Folks envy and fear Black women bc of our ability to SLAY everything #LoudBlackGirls
— Feminista Jones (@FeministaJones) July 15, 2016
So the next time you receive a message saying you’re “too much” or “too loud”, echo this.
Going to drop this right here. Be blessed #LoudBlackGirls. pic.twitter.com/kHYF2iLxcZ
— GirlTyler (@sheistyler) July 15, 2016