If you tuned into the most recent episode of HBO’s Insecure, you were probably left reeling just like us. Sure, we’re collectively in shambles because the beloved show is coming to an end this week, but that isn’t the only reason for said feelings. Fans all over the Twittersphere (and probably beyond) were reminded of their respective toxic exes when Lawrence decided to spin the block and profess his love for Issa, despite her being in a newly minted happy relationship with Nathan. Not only was this reminiscent of a situation that far too many of us have been in, it illuminated something deeper: There are just some exes we need to leave behind and that is OK. It’s a tale as old as time when ex partners attempt to pop back into one’s life when they see you flourishing in abundance.

It’s clear that Mya’s “Case of the Ex” song aged gracefully because these types of shenanigans are still happening to this day. Here’s a list of seven types of exes you should leave in the dust for good.