This Twitter thread explains why dating can be so frustrating in 2016

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| June 17 2016,

08:30 am


Dating is becoming like a second job in 2016. A relationship requires great effort and a time investment, in the end you can still get burned before even sealing the deal. Some people are worth the risk and some aren't. But how do you know when the person is the right one and if they are worth your time? What are the signs to look for when it comes to determining whether someone is committed to getting to know you?

The process can be daunting as a millennial.

' We all have met someone who seemed too good to be true. After all the "soul swiping", you finally get someone who seems to want what you want and is on the same page. It's going good for awhile and then out of nowhere things change and you start to live out the lyrics of a Drake song

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Sometimes the writing is on the wall and other times the rug is pulled right from under you. If you're like most of us you want answers as to why. Why did this person switch it up on me? Wasn't I everything and more to this person? One Twitter user came through with some words of wisdom when it comes to shooting your shot, missing and getting closure

He outlines how it all goes and drops a few gems on us in the process.


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"Sorry love I've been really busy lately." — Not Really (@NonProphet_) June 15, 2016''
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Ya'll reading this thread.. Sounds eerily familiar right? So what happened? Where did you go wrong? Why he switch up

Let's find out

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You did NOTHING WRONG

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Lol. Time

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And by now we just want you happy

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We start dating

You ECSTATIC

You HYPE

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Girls? Sounds familiar

How does the guy go about fixing it? Let's explain that and then that's it

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Stop. Blaming. Yourselves. For. His. Flaws

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YA'LL READY? — Not Really (@NonProphet_) June 15, 2016 ''

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But it is SO necessary

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By the time I got to the end of the thread, I wanted to pass around a collection plate and send him my offering via PayPal. This pretty much sums up what it is like to date in 2016. The games, the indecisiveness and the unwillingness to just admit that you're not ready. Not to bash my fellas because some women are just as indecisive. The universal idea here is that love is a decision. Everyone deserves someone who is ready and open to making the decision to love us. We deserve someone who if you had a twin, you would still get chose

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