"You look like you lost the song in your own song. Like you want to talk to God, but afraid because y'all ain't spoke in so long.” Poet Jasmine Mans summed Kanye up in her poem "Footnotes for Kanye," in a way that we all wanted to but didn't have the words for. Despite our attempt to show support to the rapper since becoming a Kardashian, he once again failed us and took Chance the Rapper with him. But that’s not all that the last 24 hours of our lives have seen as we’ve watched our idols fall from their thrones. Bill Cosby was found guilty and Kelis came forward with stories of physical abuse at the hands of rapper Nas. Although Bill Cosby and Kanye both fell from our graces awhile ago, it doesn't sting any less having your suspicions confirmed that who we thought had us, understood us and represented us, has ultimately failed us.

We miss the old Kanye. He’s not coming back. And in his own words, remixed — Kanye doesn’t care about black people. So what does that mean for Chance the Rapper who took to defending the hip hop legend who proudly announced his support of a national terrorist known as our President? When we think of Chance and his rise to fame and all he has done in and out of the studio like working to help inner city youth in Chicago, we don’t expect to see him holding hands with Uncle Tom. If Chance just felt compelled to speak on the matter, why was it not to call Kanye out for once again being more a Kardashian than a black man in America? His decision to support Kanye may not be a complete fall from grace but it is worth a side eye at the family cookout.

To take us from annoyed to tired as hell, came the news of Bill Cosby and the rapper Nas. Both accused of violating the rights of a woman to be safe in her own body. Bill Cosby was found guilty of sexual assault after years of allegations. On the other hand, after years of remaining quiet about her relationship and divorce from Nas, singer Kelis came forward with news of the hip hop legend being physically violent with her. Nas, Mr. Illmatic himself, accused of using a woman as a batting cage.

When it comes to the violation of women we can’t forget men like R. Kelly, who should have been canceled a long time ago for his reported predatory and repulsive behavior towards young women. Nor men like Fabulous and his inability to keep his hands to himself — to go from standing with us as superwomen to berating and threatening the life of a queen is unacceptable. No matter how great a lyricist Fab has been over the years, as a man he falls short. The question is, do we separate him from his music or combine the man and the music? No matter what you decide, both let us down. The man and the musician.

How did we get here? How did so many of our idols fall from grace? Hood philosopher and prophet J. Cole’s "False Prophets" song sums up our last 24 hours as we watch the continuous fall from grace of those we have spent our last dime on just be like yeah we copped that hit.

I dont know about you, but a sis is tired. I understand that each of these men are human and susceptible to making bad decisions, I just wish it was a different type of bad decision that didn't come at the hands of a woman’s bodily integrity or that didn’t require a shuck and jive.

How will you treat your legends now that you know? Leave your comments in the comments section below.