Although October was Domestic Violence Awareness Month, R&B singer Ashanti and her baby sis Kenashia “Shia” Douglas are taking a seat at Jada Pinkett Smith’s red table to detail Shia’s traumatic experience with domestic abuse at the hands of her ex-fiance, Windsor “Slow” Lubin.

Lubin, who also goes by the nickname Slowbucks, co-founded an entertainment company and clothing brand by the same name. He and Shia dated for 13 years, publicly announcing their engagement on Instagram in 2016. On the outside, the pair looked inseparable and deeply in love. However, in 2020, Ashanti posted a video on Instagram shockingly revealing to the public that her sister was a victim of abuse. In the video, Ashanti alleged that Slowbucks not only beat Shia to the point that he left her bruised and broke her teeth, but his constant abuse also caused her to miscarry their unborn child.