When learning to love a woman’s heart there are five important things you must remember. This comes from my own previous relationships, which I fell short on, and from what I have learned from my own personal growth with God. I think it is important for a man to understand and apply them if they want to have a healthy relationship with a woman.

Establishing a relationship with God

First, it is very important that you establish a personal relationship with God. This is because you must learn what God’s love looks and feels like. Once you understand his love, you will be able to reflect the same love.

Self-Love.

Before you love her heart, you must learn to love yourself. God is the only one that can give you self-love and self-worth. The lord will love you for who you are and constantly love you when no one else does. He is the only one who stays consistent on his love and promises.

Love her heart the way she needs to be loved.

This is very important when it comes to loving her heart. There might have been a period in her life where she was heartbroken from past boyfriends, family members, and other people that were once close to her. You must take your time and figure out where those wounds are and fill those gaps with your actions. Through time, she will build confidence and realize you aren’t like the men in her past relationships. This will slowly lead to opening her heart to you and allow you to lead her.

Love her for who she is.

Learn to love the woman that God gave you. Sometimes we are so quick to change someone for what we think we need. When doing so, we don’t realize that God gave us this person and led us to have such a strong bond for a reason. She serves a purpose in your life and it is important that you identify her strengths and lead her to what God designed her to be.

Leadership

Establishing the leadership role early in her life will bring a level of comfort that her heart needs and desires. This could mean leading her in prayer, or simply becoming that shield of comfort when she is emotionally and physically weak. Quality time is very important. Take the time out and really try to understand your woman and give her the value that her heart needs to feel protected.

I hope you found these tips helpful! Remember love is never rushed.

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