Back in 2004, Kelly Rowland and Nelly had us all singing as if we were in romantic dilemmas, whether or not we truly we were. After the historic success of former music group Destiny’s Child, Rowland started branching out and finding new opportunities.

Many fans of the Atlanta native argue that year she created one of her most enduring — and meme-worthy — moments during a scene in the music video for “Dilemma,” the love ballad rap song by chart-topping rap star Nelly featuring Rowland. For years, fans have been tickled by the star using an early version of Microsoft Excel to send her “boo” a text message.