If you're feeling like your dating game's a little rusty, Issa Rae is here to help you out.
The writer and actress recently sat down with GQ for a video in which she teaches viewers "not to be that guy."
To go along with the photo shoot that saw her dressing like everyone's fave black '90s icons, Issa Rae partnered with GQ to provide dating advice for men.
The Insecure co-creator and star dropped tips on how to be better as a guy in the dating world. Specifically, she spoke at length about what NOT to do.
So, what were the topics she hit?
Asking Her Out: Bottom line, just be straight forward. No beating around the bush. Oh, and no "trick-dates." Especially in the Hollywood industry, that "let's grab coffee!" invite could mean you want to have a meeting.
"You gotta be like, 'Oh, I wanna take you out on a date,' or else I'm gonna show up in sweats and a backpack," quipped Issa.
Date Style: Basically, don't dress boring, and your shoes better not be dirty! Also, introduce yourself to an iron.
"I love cologne. I say a good cologne can make you second-guess a man's unattractiveness," said Issa.
First Date: Issa is into the classic movie date! Though she advises guys don't talk during the show, Issa loves to scope how her date reacts to movies and if they can carry a good conversation about it afterward. And she's down with the "bring your own snacks to the theater" thing, but not on the first date. She don't know you like that!
Soooo … Who Pays?: "I do think a guy should pay for everything … I want you to pay for my sh*t," Rae stated. She would like her guy to be upfront if he's broke, though. Don't front.
Post-Date: Issa thinks you should at least whip out the "I had a good time" text within 12 hours. Speaking of "red flags" when texting, though …
Ghosting: She admits she's done it before, but feels super "disrespected" when it happens to her. So Issa's … human? Got it. LOL
About That Third Date Rule: Basically, "Don't sexpect." Even though one of her friends is hard and fast about sex on the third date, she isn't firm on the number.
All solid advice as far as we're concerned. But Issa wants everyone to remember one last thing: "Don't come for me if this doesn't work for you!"
Check out the full clip below!
