The power of no: 3 ways to use it
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Things have changed. My life can certainly get overwhelming, having to simultaneously juggle family, friends, career, kids, entrepreneurship and marriage. Yes, it's hard work but it's so worth it when the priorities align. But one thing that I am now not ashamed to confidently announce is "no" when I am feeling like I have stretched myself too thin or simply want to use my free time for family fun or self-care. Now that I prioritize effectively, I can plan accordingly for every special event and milestone of my loved ones to make better use of my time without feeling flustered
Do you struggle with "no"? Here are 3 ways to exercise your power:
For your sanity
2. To fulfill your most important commitments in your lifeWe have our priorities outlined according to the people or things we wish to give our undivided time and attention to. In order to be fully present when it matters, we have to stop saying "maybe" or "yes" to the fillers (i.e., things we want no parts of or simply cannot commit to). It will be difficult but give those fillers a hard "no" and you will immediately feel a weight lifted off your shoulders. Understandably, it's challenging to want to be everywhere at once and everything to everybody. You don't want to miss anything, but you will thank yourself for it. Throw overcommitment out of your life's equation
3. To be selfish with your time (and be ok with it)By all means, if you do have the time and energy to take on extra things, go right ahead — but only on your own terms. The most important thing is to not feel pressured into saying "yes" all the time. There is nothing like being "present" for the things and people that matter the most — the bigger "yes" that is burning inside
"No is a complete sentence." - OprahWord